Philemon 1:20
King James Version (1769)
Other translations
| Verse | KJV | BSB | ASV |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord. | Yes, brother, let me have some benefit from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ. | Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my heart in Christ. |
In context
AI-assisted, sourcedPaul has just offered to pay anything Onesimus owes and gently reminded Philemon that he owes Paul his own self. Now he sums up his appeal: 'Yes, brother,' give me this benefit and refresh my heart. The way Philemon can do that is by receiving Onesimus as he would receive Paul. Philemon 1:17Philemon 1:18Philemon 1:19Philemon 1:20Philemon 1:21
SpeakingPaul, a prisoner of Jesus Christ, writing with Timothy. He signs part of the letter in his own hand. Philemon 1:1Philemon 1:19Philemon overview
ToPhilemon, whom Paul calls a dearly beloved fellowlabourer and here 'brother.' The letter also greets Apphia, Archippus, and the church in his house. Philemon 1:1Philemon 1:2Philemon 1:20Philemon overview
Also involvedOnesimus, Philemon's servant, who had left him and became a believer through Paul. Paul is asking Philemon to receive him as a brother beloved. Philemon 1:10Philemon 1:12Philemon 1:16Philemon overview
Paul asks Philemon for joy and refreshment 'in the Lord.' Philemon has already refreshed the hearts of the saints. Paul now asks him to refresh Paul's heart too, by welcoming Onesimus, whom Paul calls 'mine own bowels,' meaning his own heart. Philemon 1:7Philemon 1:12Philemon 1:17Philemon 1:20
Paul writes from prison, and the letter does not name the city; Rome is the traditional view. It went to Philemon's household church, likely at Colossae, since Colossians calls Onesimus 'one of you.' Philemon overview
The eventsThe appeal comes while Paul is in prison. Onesimus is being sent back to Philemon. Philemon 1:9Philemon 1:10Philemon 1:12
WrittenTraditional view: about AD 60-62, during Paul's imprisonment in Rome, at the same time as Colossians. Scholarly view: nearly all scholars accept that Paul wrote it, but some place the imprisonment at Ephesus (about AD 54-55) or Caesarea (about AD 57-59). Philemon overview
HerePaul closes his appeal warmly instead of commanding. He has said he prefers to beseech 'for love's sake,' and he trusts Philemon will do even more than he asks. Philemon 1:8Philemon 1:9Philemon 1:21Philemon overview
In the whole of ScriptureOther letters show Paul finding his joy in how believers live. He calls the Thessalonians 'our glory and joy' and asks the Philippians to 'fulfil ye my joy' by being of one mind. Here that joy hangs on Philemon welcoming a servant as a brother in Christ. 1 Thessalonians 2:20Philippians 2:2Philemon 1:16Philemon overview
For readersKindness to one person can refresh the hearts of others who love that person. Scripture ties real love to opening one's heart to a brother in need. Philemon 1:7Philemon 1:201 John 3:17
- let me have joyὀνίνημι
The lexicon glosses this word as 'to profit, benefit, help' and, in this form, 'to have profit, derive benefit.' It lists Philemon 20 as its New Testament use. Paul is asking for a benefit from Philemon, after describing Onesimus as now 'profitable' in verse 11. Strong's G3685Philemon 1:11
- refreshἀναπαύω
It means to give rest or refresh, as in Matthew 11:28. The same word appears in verse 7, where the saints' hearts 'are refreshed' by Philemon. Paul asks him to do for Paul what he already does for others. Strong's G0373Philemon 1:7
- bowelsσπλάγχνον
The word means the inward parts and, by extension, the heart or affection. Paul used it in verse 12 when he called Onesimus 'mine own bowels.' So refreshing Paul's heart points back to welcoming Onesimus. Strong's G4698Philemon 1:12Philemon 1:7
- Yeaναί
This is a word of affirmation. The lexicon lists Philemon 20 among its uses 'in confirmation of a previous assertion,' so it underlines the appeal Paul has just made. Strong's G3483Philemon 1:17Philemon 1:19
Takeaway
This verse is Paul's warm closing plea. Philemon can bring Paul joy and rest of heart by receiving Onesimus as a beloved brother 'in the Lord.' Philemon 1:16Philemon 1:17Philemon 1:20
Drafted by AI from the Scripture and data shown under “Show sources,” then checked automatically and by a second AI pass. Updated 2026-10-23.
The world around the text
Behind this verse
- Asking a friend to plead
- Roman lawyers discussed slaves who went to a friend of their master to ask him to plead for them, and held that such a slave was not counted a runaway. Pliny the Younger wrote a letter of this kind, begging a friend to forgive a freedman who had come to him in tears. Justinian, Digest 21.1.17.4 (citing Proculus)Pliny the Younger, Letters 9.21, 9.24
About AD 60-62. Roman emperor: Nero (AD 54-68). Where Philemon and the church in his house lived. A small town in the Lycus valley of Phrygia, in the Roman province of Asia, about 190 km (120 miles) east of Ephesus.
Who ruled
- Roman emperorNeroAD 54-68
Emperor over Rome, Asia and Judea. Paul, a Roman citizen, had appealed to Caesar, who in these years was Nero. Acts 25:10-12Acts 28:16Suetonius, NeroTacitus, Annals 13-16
- Governor of the province where Colossae stoodThe proconsul of AsiaOne-year terms
Asia was governed by a proconsul appointed for a year at a time, who heard cases in the province's leading cities. Acts 19:38Strabo, Geography 17.3.25
- Governor of Judea and Jewish client kingFestus and Agrippa IIc. AD 59-62; c. AD 50-90s
Festus and King Agrippa heard Paul's defense in Caesarea and sent him on to Rome as he had asked. Acts 25:12Acts 25:23-26:32
What was happening, AD 58 to AD 64
- AD 58-63WarRome and Parthia fight over Armenia
Roman armies under Corbulo campaigned in Armenia until the two empires made peace in AD 63. Tacitus, Annals 13.34-41, 14.23-26, 15.1-17, 15.24-31
- c. AD 59-60The churchPaul's voyage to Rome
Paul sailed for Rome as a prisoner, was shipwrecked on Malta, and reached Rome the following spring. Acts 27:1-28:16
- AD 60DisasterEarthquake in the Lycus valley
An earthquake ruined Laodicea, about 16 km (10 miles) from Colossae; Laodicea rebuilt without Rome's help. A later Christian historian says Hierapolis and Colossae fell in the same disaster. Tacitus, Annals 14.27Orosius, History Against the Pagans 7.7.12Colossians 4:13
- AD 60-61WarBoudica's revolt in Britain
Boudica, queen of the Iceni, led a rising that burned Colchester, London and St Albans before the Romans defeated her. Tacitus, Annals 14.29-39
- c. AD 60-62The churchPaul under guard in Rome
Paul lived two whole years in his own rented house, guarded by a soldier, receiving all who came to him. Colossians, Philemon, Ephesians and Philippians are traditionally dated to these years. Acts 28:16Acts 28:30-31Philippians 1:13
- AD 61RulersA slave-owner's murder shakes Rome
When the city prefect Pedanius Secundus was killed by one of his slaves, the Senate upheld the old law that all 400 slaves of his household be executed, despite protests from the crowd. Tacitus, Annals 14.42-45
- AD 62The churchJames, the Lord's brother, is killed
Between governors, the high priest Ananus had "James, the brother of Jesus who was called Christ" stoned in Jerusalem. Josephus, Antiquities 20.197-203Galatians 1:19
- AD 64The churchFire in Rome, and Nero blames the Christians
After a great fire burned much of Rome, Nero blamed the Christians and put a "vast multitude" to death. Tacitus, Annals 15.38-44Suetonius, Nero 16.2
The full picture: places, culture and daily life. Scripture first, then ancient writers on these years and places (Tacitus, Suetonius, Josephus, Strabo, Herodotus, Pliny, Roman law). Drafted by Claude and not yet reviewed by a person.
Original Greek words
| English | Greek | Say it | Strong's | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Yes, | ναί, | nai | G3483 | yesναί (nai) ναί particle of affirmation, yea, verily, even so; in answer to a question: Mat.9:28 13:51 17:25 21:16, Jhn.11:27 21:15-16, Act.5:8 22:27, Rom.3:29; before λέγω ὑμῖν, Mat.11:9, Luk.7:26; repeated for emphasis, ναὶ ναί (opposite to oὒ oὔ): Mat.5:37; ἤτω ὑμῶν τὸ ναὶ ναί, Jas.5:12; ν. καὶ οὔ, 2Co.1:18-19; ἵνα ᾖ . . . τὸ ναὶ ναί, 2Co.1:17; τὸ ν., 2Co.1:20; in assent to an assertion: Mat.15:27, Mrk.7:28, Rev.14:13 16:7; in confirmation of a previous assertion: Mat.11:26, Luk.10:21 11:51 12:5, Php.4:3, Phm 20; in solemn asseveration Rev.1:7 22:20.† (AS) |
| brother, | ἀδελφέ, | adelphe | G0080 | brotherἀδελφός (adelphos) ἀδελφός, -οῦ, ὁ (ἀ- copul., δελφύς, womb), in cl., a brother, born of the same parent or parents. [In LXX (Hort, Ja., 102f.), for אָח ;] 1. lit. of a brother (Gen.4:2, al.). 2. Of a neighbour (Lev.19:17). 3. Of a member of the same nation (Exo.2:14, Deu.15:3). In NT in each of these senses (1. Mat.1:2, al.; 2. Mat.7:3; 3. Rom.9:3) and also, … |
| I myself | ἐγώ | egō | G1473 | I/weἐγώ (egō) ἐγώ, genitive, etc., ἐμοῦ, ἐμοί, ἐμέ (enclitic μου, μοι, με), pl. ἡμεῖς, -ῶν, -ῖν, -ᾶς, of person(s) pron. I. (a) The nom. is usually emphatic, when expressed as subjc, as in Mat.3:11, Mrk.1:8, Luk.3:16, al. But often there is no apparent emphasis, as Mat.10:16, Jhn.10:17; ἰδοὺ ἐ. (= Heb. הִנֵּנִי, cf. 1Ki.3:8), Act.9:10; ἐ. (like Heb. אֲנִי), I am, Jhn.1:23 (LXX), Act.7:32 (LXX). … |
| from you | σου | sou | G4771 | youσέ (se) αὐτός, -ή, -ό, determinative pron., in late Gk. much more frequently than in cl. (WM, 178f.; Jannaris, HGG, §1399). 1. Emphatic (so always in nom. exc. when preceded by the art., see infr., iii); (1) self (ipse), expressing opposition, distinction, exclusion, etc., αὐ. ἐκχυθήσεται, Luk.5:37; αὐ. ἐγινώσκεν, Jhn.2:25; αὐ.ὑμεῖς, Jhn.3:28; καὶ αὐ. ἐγώ, Rom.15:14; αὐ. Ἰησοῦς, Jhn.2:24; αὐ. καὶ οἱ μετ᾽ αὐτοῦ, Mrk.2:25; ὑμεῖς αὐ., Mrk.6:31; esp. (as freq in cl.) αὐ. ὁ, Mat.3:4, Mrk.6:17, Jhn.16:27, 1Th.3:11, al.; in late Gk., sometimes weakened, ἐν αὐτῇ τ. ὥρᾳ, in that hour, Luk.10:21 (M, Pr., 91; … |
| I would have profit | ὀναίμην | onaimēn | G3685 | to have joyὀνίνημι (oninēmi) ὀνίνημι [in LXX: Tob.3:8, Sir.30:2 * ;] to profit, benefit, help; mid., to have profit, derive benefit: optative (M, Pr., 195), with genitive, Phm 20.† (AS) |
| in | ἐν | en | G1722 | in/on/amongἐν (en) ἐν, prep, (the most frequently of all in NT), with dative (= Heb. בְּ, Lat. in, with abl.). I. Of place, with dative of thing(s), of person(s), in, within, on, at, by, among: ἐν τ. πόλει, Luk.7:37; τ. οφθαλμῷ, Mat.7:3; τ. κοιλίᾳ, Mat.12:40; τ. ὄρει, 2Pe.1:18; τ. θρόνῳ, Rev.3:21; τ. δεξιᾷ τ. θεοῦ, Rom.8:34; ἐν ἡμῖν Abbott-Smith has ὑμῖν., Luk.1:1; of books, ἐν τ. βιβλίῳ, Gal.3:10; τ. νόμῳ, Mat.12:5, al.; ἐν τοῖς τ. Πατρός, in my Father's house (RV; cf. M, Pr., 103), Luk.2:49; trop., of the region of thought or feeling, ἐν τ. καρδίᾳ (-αις), Mat.5:28, 2Co.4:6, al.; τ. συνειδήσεσιν, 2Co.5:11; af … |
| [the] Lord; | κυρίῳ· | kuriō | G2962G | lord: Godκύριος (kurios) κύριος, -α, -ον (also -ος, -ον), [in LXX (subst.) chiefly for יהוה, also for בַּעַל ,אָדוֹן, etc. ;] having power (κῦρος) or authority; as subst., ὁ κ., lord, master; 1. in general: with genitive of thing(s), Mat.9:38 20:8, Mrk.12:9 13:35, Luk.19:33; τ. σαββάτου, Mat.12:8, Mrk.2:28, Luk.6:5; with genitive of person(s), δούλου, etc., Mat.10:24, Luk.14:21, Act.16:16, al.; absol, opposite to οἱ δοῦλοι, Eph.6:5, 9 al.; of the Emperor (Deiss., LAE, 161), Act.25:26; θεοὶ πολλοὶ καὶ κ. πολλοί, 1Co.8:5; of a husband, 1Pe.3:6; in voc, as a title of respect to masters, teachers, magistrates, etc., Ma … |
| do refresh | ἀνάπαυσόν | anapauson | G0373 | to give restἀναπαύω (anapauō) ἀνα-παύω, [in LXX for fourteen different words, chiefly נוּחַ, also רָבַץ, שָׁאַן, etc. ;] to give intermission from labour, to give rest, refresh: Mat.11:28, 1Co.16:18, Phm 20; pass., Phm 7, 2Co.7:13. Mid., to take rest, enjoy rest: Mat.26:45, Mrk.6:31 14:41, Luk.12:19, Rev.6:11 14:13; as in Heb. ofIs 11:2 (עַל נוּחַ), τὸ πνεῦμα ἐφ᾽ ὑᾶμς ἀ., 1Pe.4:14. (In π. this word is used as a technical agricultural term; see MM, VGT, see word; and cf. Le 2634 f.; Cremer, 826.)† (AS) |
| my | μου | mou | G3165 | meμέ (me) 1. apostrophe for με. 2. rarely for μοι, (Homer) (ML) |
| heart | σπλάγχνα | splagchna | G4698 | affection/entrailsσπλάγχνον (splagchnon) σπλάγχνον, -ου, τό mostly (in NT always) in pl., σπλάγχνα, -ων, τά, [in LXX: Pro.12:10 (רַחַם, elsewhere rendered by οἰκτιρμοί, Psa.25:6 40:12 and by ἔλεος, Isa.47:6), Pro.26:22 (בֶּטֶן), Wis.10:5, Sir.30:7, 2Ma.9:5 (6), al. ;] … |
| in | ἐν | en | G1722 | in/on/amongἐν (en) ἐν, prep, (the most frequently of all in NT), with dative (= Heb. בְּ, Lat. in, with abl.). I. Of place, with dative of thing(s), of person(s), in, within, on, at, by, among: ἐν τ. πόλει, Luk.7:37; τ. οφθαλμῷ, Mat.7:3; τ. κοιλίᾳ, Mat.12:40; τ. ὄρει, 2Pe.1:18; τ. θρόνῳ, Rev.3:21; τ. δεξιᾷ τ. θεοῦ, Rom.8:34; ἐν ἡμῖν Abbott-Smith has ὑμῖν., Luk.1:1; of books, ἐν τ. βιβλίῳ, Gal.3:10; τ. νόμῳ, Mat.12:5, al.; ἐν τοῖς τ. Πατρός, in my Father's house (RV; cf. M, Pr., 103), Luk.2:49; trop., of the region of thought or feeling, ἐν τ. καρδίᾳ (-αις), Mat.5:28, 2Co.4:6, al.; τ. συνειδήσεσιν, 2Co.5:11; af … |
| Christ. | Χριστῷ.¶ | Christō | G5547 | ChristΧριστός (Christos) χριστός (Χρ-), -ή, -όν (χρίω), [in LXX for מָשִׁיחַ and cogn. forms ;] 1. 1. as adj., (a) of things, anointing, to be used as ointment (Æsch., Eur., al.; τ. ἔλαιον τὸ χ., Lev.21:10); (b) of persons, anointed (ὁ ἰερεὺς ὁ χ., Lev.4:5; οἱ χ. ἰευρεῖς, 2Ma.1:10): ὁ χ. τοῦ κυρίου or Θεοῦ (1Ki.2:10, Psa.2:2, al.), of the Messiah (Aram., מְשִׁיחָא; cf. Dalman, Words, 289 ff.), Luk.2:11, 26 Jhn.1:41, Act.2:36 4:26, al. … |
Words and meanings from STEPBible data (Tyndale House, Cambridge, CC BY 4.0). The capitalized syllable is the stressed one.